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Only do it if it's supposed to be part of the wedding. Otherwise, don't do it. It would be very disruptive and distracting and could make an otherwise beautiful moment very awkward. And it'd be something the bride and groom would have to remember for the rest of their lives every time they put on their rings.
That's not a very convincing argument to not do that every week at a random wedding.
Originally, before I posted it, my comment had something like "inb4 someone says you're making it sound like a great idea".
I really should've kept that in there.
Who lets randos into their wedding?
Weddings have too much going on for anyone to keep track. It's not a concert. No one is checking for tickets. After the wedding, receptions have assigned seating. But by then, you'd be long gone and planning the next Tolkiened wedding.
But I am Annatar, the Lord of Gifts!
Let's do some awkward wedding crashing, we'll be the life of the reception!