Transfem

Lately, it's been keeping my daily skincare routine and perfecting my haircare routine. Having soft, smooth hair is my favorite and is worth the effort. I've also been experimenting a lot of with outfits and styles that I normally shy away from, as well as embracing my own femininity in a much more confident, less shy way than I'm used to. You can tell that people treat you noticeably differently when you're overtly feminine, and I normally don't pass, but I feel like I have been more often since making these changes.

With skincare to actually get started I just picked out a day and night moisturizer that had decent reviews and wasn't too heavy as my skin is more oily than dry normally, as well as Neutrogena's ultra gentle face cleanser. I've since added a brightening serum that I use every day and have been eyeing an eye serum specifically to help with my dark eye bags.

Every morning, I cleanse off all my night product, and then apply my brightening serum and then my day time moisturizer that's spf15. Then, at night, I cleanse off my daytime product before bed, getting all the dirt and oils off my face. Then I apply my brightening serum again and apply my night time moisturizer.

Improving my hair care routine came down to getting satin pillowcases cause they're pretty cheap if you can find a local store that has them, and my hair is bad for tangling overnight. I also got a bond protector that has significantly reduced the damage I get when blow drying my hair, which I do every time I wash it. I also have a tub of coconut oil based hair product that I use a little bit of on the day after i wash it. My hair has grown a lot since I started doing that.

Every time I wash it I use my Tresemmé keratin smooth shampoo to get the coconut oil and other oils out of my hair. Then I use the keratin smooth conditioner and really work it into my roots before spreading it over my full length hair. It's important to run your fingers in between the strands to make sure the conditioner gets the root area, at least it is for me as my roots get dry. I leave it in for a couple minutes while I finish up showering and then rinse it out. Once I'm out, I gently dry my hair with a massive old band t-shirt from my pre-transition era, and then apply a conservative amount of Olaplex No. 9 bond protector working it from my ends all the way up to my roots. Then I blow dry it first on low heat then on high heat, and get it brushed out and parted with my point comb.

With hair and skin care, experimentation is important to getting things exactly as you like them. Drug stores these days carry a range of products, both cheap and expensive, I started with cheap ones while I sorted out what my skin needs. A tip that's helped me a lot is getting a small bottle of Clean and Clear 5% benzoyl peroxide acne treatment. If I see any white heads starting on my face during my morning or evening routine, I apply some of that after putting on my moisturizer. Makes a huge difference in preventing acne from fully developing, at least for me anyway. I only apply it once a day until it's mostly gone and then stop, as it does dry out my skin a fair bit.

Edit: Added some actual tips, lol