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Oh! I'd love to help you understand that there's a lot of illnesses that you can't see! ๐ฅฐ Seizures aren't visible, Mitral Valve Prolapse isn't visible, Narcolepsy, Cataplexy, Endometriosis, Tachycardia, Reynauds; they're not visible. I have been diagnosed with all of them. The only thing that's visible is my cane, wheelchair, and braces from severe Ehlers Danlos Syndrome, but again, I don't show that online. I can stand without supports about half the time and I schedule shoots around good days because when I'm in cosplay, I'm playing someone who's not crippled. I have a medical background with 3 years of psychology before my health took away my career, so wanted to let you know that being mean for zero reason, completely forgetting that there's a real person behind the screen, is a sign of mental illness. You should probably get checked. I've got programs if you can't afford mental healthcare! I'd love to meet you in person. I think you need a hug, though I'm not sure you deserve my awesome tits pressed up against you. Either way, kill em with kindness has always been my motto and hopefully I've educated you about invisible disabilities. kisses
Is it nice to have a person to talk to that doesn't give a shit that you're not being kind? I'm glad I can be here for you! Let it out, friend! Let it out! ๐