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Let's Play AQ-10 • I know how to tell if someone listening to me is getting bored (sh.itjust.works)
submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by [email protected] to c/autism
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This is one of a series of discussion posts based on questions from the AQ-10 autism test.

5. I know how to tell if someone listening to me is getting bored.

  • Definitely Agree
  • Slightly Agree
  • Slightly Disagree
  • Definitely Disagree

Is this statement true for you? Can you think of any examples? Is it an easy or difficult question for you to answer?

You can take the full AQ-10 test here. Note this test is intended as a quick screener, and cannot diagnose or rule out any condition on its own.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I wouldn't know if I don't notice it. So if I don't see it... huh.

I think I can tell, when I watch for hints like if the person is asking questions or adds something to the topic.

Somehow I tend to be overly cautious to not talk about things that bore people - I don't want to be annoying. And sometimes I don't want to spend the energy to talk about a topic of the other isn't interested. So it is the opposite?

When I don't pay close attention, when I feel the urge to tell something, to bring a point across or when I feel like talking about something, when it feels good to talk - then maybe.

What is hard for me, is to establish a connection on a personal level and to really get to know someone. Or find appropriate topics to speak about. But that is not within the frame of the question.