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I have the opportunity to go to a SA concert next year but I'm old and Grey. I don't want go if im the ceeepy old guy. Thoughts? I do know and enjoy a bit of his misic.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Just don’t act like an actual creep and no one will care

Never have I heard a more naive statement.

[–] volleyballcrocodile 7 points 1 year ago

The EDM scene is usually pretty inclusive. If you go there as an older man and just enjoy yourself and dance you'll be fine.

If you leer at women and get handsy you'll have an issue.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Go to better concerts then. I'm a regular concert go-er and at the shows I go to, most people just keep to themselves and concentrate on the show. If you're not acting like a creep and not bothering anyone, nobody will care if you're a 50 year old attending an EDM concert. If people think you're a creep at every concert you attend, then maybe it's a "you" problem.