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Can porn be used in a healthy way? or should it be avoided completely? (lemmy.ml)

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[–] captainlezbian 65 points 9 months ago

Sexologists seem to generally believe it can be.

My general attitude is to treat it like any other easy good feeling thing. Masturbating whenever you feel bad leads to it being your primary coping mechanism which isn’t ideal if you want an emotionally healthy sex life. I’d compare it in that way to using marijuana or alcohol. It’s a great way to have some fun and not a healthy coping mechanism.