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What secret do you know that could ruin someone else's life? (self.asklemmy)

submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by Ragdoll_X to c/[email protected]

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~~Probably a boring answer but~~ I know my grandmother's credit card information. I live with and help take care of her, so she doesn't mind sharing it with me. Not like I'm planning to do anything nefarious, but I guess technically it could ruin her financially.

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[–] TwoBeeSan 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Ex was flamboyantly gay.

The amount of straight men in relationships who will approach gay men for sex is much higher than you think.

Multiple coworkers were in his dms and he probably got propositioned weekly from people who would generally be negative towards gay people.

All it takes is a screenshot and a dm to a spouse.

[–] Ragdoll_X 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Relevant meme

[–] TwoBeeSan 4 points 1 year ago

The shame makes it better.