The fact that you think this is about "hurt feelings" rather than what it is - actual oppression that leads to real life marginalisation, violence, and death, you're either not paying attention or are being wilfully ignorant and obtuse.

All this “enlightened” centrism bullshit does is enable oppressors
Could you please elaborate?

You could open your eyes, or simply take the idea of dictating what people do and don't wear to it's only conclusion (it is literally oppression in its own right, no matter your personal feelings on the matter), but here, I'll save you having to do any hard work:

specifically:

https://socialistworker.co.uk/what-we-think/stop-islamophobic-attacks-on-the-veil/

https://stockholmcf.org/intl-human-rights-bodies-warn-ecj-ruling-over-headscarf-ban-panders-to-prejudice/

https://daily.jstor.org/muslim-women-and-the-politics-of-the-headscarf/

generally:

https://www.counterpunch.org/2020/10/14/liberalism-and-fascism-partners-in-crime/

https://blacklikemao.medium.com/how-liberalism-helps-fascism-d4dbdcb199d9

https://truthout.org/articles/fascism-is-possible-not-in-spite-of-liberal-capitalism-but-because-of-it/

https://nyanarchist.wordpress.com/2019/01/23/scratch-a-liberal-a-fascist-bleeds-how-the-so-called-middle-class-has-enabled-oppression-for-centuries/