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If you want to do AA without the god bit, the Satanic Temple has something called Sober Faction (in case you didnβt know, Satanic Temple is an atheist organisation and doesnβt actually worship Satan)
I do know the satanic temple yeah, neither of us are religious. She might actually be a bit jazzed if it's from there honestly, thank you, I'll look into it
You can do AA without subscribing to a god. I chose nature for my higher power
+1 this. βA higher power as you personally understand itβ
Yeah I struggled the most with this part as well which is why I try and speak up when people say you have to be religious to do AA. AA might not work for everyone but I'd hate that someone felt turned away because they weren't religious when it was something that helped me and I am NOT religious at all.
How did that go for you? I know it's a personal thing but if you would be willing to expand on your experiences there in AA a little I would appreciate it, thank you
It went great, i went to meetings and actually travelled a bit to share my story with people at other meetings. The whole point of a "higher power" is to acknowledge there is something bigger than yourself. I've been sober about 4 years now.
The main thing I think is important for people to get help is that they have to make the choice, if you force someone to get sober tbey will resent you for it. It is a lot of work and I am tremendously lucky I had my wife by my side. Hopefully that helped, i'm happy to answer dms if you have more questions
Every large city has atheist/agnostic/secular AA groups.
Fucking neat