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When's the last time you felt seen, heard, and understood? (self.asklemmy)

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[–] cheese_greater 9 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Honestly, this can be very much be done and people crave it. People crave being noticed and affirmed and getting to engage with others on more than just a superficial level (as long as you respect their boundaries and recover if you faux pas at some point). People can be very gracious/graceful when someone reaches out to them in this way and will often "play-along" because I've noticed basically everyone refuses to be the first one to step out of their comfort zone and take a chance pal-ing around with a stranger but I can find a way to make most people comfortable and maybe even get a chuckle or 10.

Its been very good news for me and the good news for you is you can too, if only you do this ONE weird trick strangers love