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Just use Feeld, bro.
None of that "I'm just a girl looking to get rammed, but because I'm afraid people will call me a slut, my profile says random bullshit about like stars and wanting a relationship - teehee". Women and guys on their are direct af. It's like dating gay men (finally). "DTF?", "Looking for a one night stand", "Looking for a threesome with my partner", "Only dating couples for a foursome", "Just want to watch my boyfriend get pegged by a hot girl/dude", etc.
Tinder was supposed to be a hookup app, but Feeld is just so much better.
Of course it can be used for finding relationships too, but at least people are clear about that. Much less of the "pretending to look for a relationship because I don't want people to think badly of me".
People use all the apps for whatever they want regardless of the app's intended usage. Feeld does cut to the chase a bit better but it's aimed at kinksters and the like. Hopefully you're into ENM, enbies and rope play. If you're looking for something more vanilla, it's not the best pond to fish in
I also think people in the ~25 age demographic are going to be more flaky and flighty no matter where you meet them.
ENM?
Ethical non-monogamy.
Feeld is scuffed, it's 25% fake profiles and 50% people that can't commit to ever meeting you and just want to sext, 25% couples looking for a unicorn
Much better IMO than Tinder where about 90% are fake profiles or just there for attention and nobody really wants to date.