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Valuing certain things more isn't bad behaviour.
For some people getting/giving gifts is a huge thing, while others don't care so much.
Some people like actions while some just like time together.
It's fine to value things differently. And what you're talking about is exactly what the book covers.
You value things differently and view their not feeling the same as bad behaviour.