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My dad once told me a sentence that stuck with me ever since:
In German though, he said "irgendwie geht es immer weiter".
Meaning that even if your rent is due and you can't pay, you're not on the streets tomorrow. And if you land on the streets, you still find shelter and have a wife which can console you. And if you don't find shelter, you still continue to live. You will always live.
There is always a tomorrow and somehow you'll manage to reach it, unless you die at some point. That point is usually way, way farther out than you could imagine.
The stuff I lived through sometimes looked like I wouldn't survive, but I did. Homeless people survive every day.
Regarding happiness, it's hard for people who experienced long times of it to finally realise that they were lucky and there's just periods of happiness to be found. Sometimes those periods are just moments. Cherish them. The small things. Fresh air, sun, a cuddle, some discount allowing you to get something nice for your wife.
Engage less in your job and use the free time to search for better opportunities. Capitalism keeps its low wage workers occupied so they don't unionize or search for better jobs, it keeps them poor so they can be exploited with high interest loans. If you can find a way around that, exploit the people which are higher up than you. Always steal from the rich, because that's repossession.
Honestly my job is the best thing in our situation. I'm a government employee who will get paid regardless of if the government shuts down and the benefits are mostly the reason I'm still here. We have a very strong union. I'm trying to convince my wife to start organizing one at her place.