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Particularly when leaving on bad terms, or in a fight, or just nagging, you would probably forever feel guilt and remorse
I have to start doing this.. Saying I love you even when, or especially when, someone did something I did not like..
"I hated what you just did.. It make me feel like crap. Still, I love you."
This, you should tell yourself as well. Many of us hate ourselves, because of what we did or didn't do, or how we are, or how we should be.
Then tell yourself; this was not a nice thing to do, you can do better. But still, i love you :-)
Damn. Thank you for being awesome.