This happened just yesterday. I opened messages to text my FWB since he was coming over after work, that’s when I see a link to nhentai in a conversation with my roommate. It doesn’t show who sent it from the selection screen, so I open it up confused as to why he would send that only to discover that it actually came from me.
I kind of freaked out because I don’t know what sent, it could’ve even been from one I didn’t even read and there’s a lot of really weird shit on this website. I open it up, it’s from one I read, and I’m slightly relieved as it’s not horrible but it is little weird. I think it sent when I put the phone down onto my stomach while I was getting busy. Source if curious, again not the worst thing, just yuri w/ foot stuff but I imagine most people would see this as pretty weird tbh.
My roommate’s a trans guy, including that bc although still embarrassing, generally guys wouldn’t take something like this as a girl creeping on them, but my roommate does actually have a lot of trauma around people fetishizing him and being sexually gross towards him for being trans. Despite that, I calmed myself down and thought that I was just catastrophizing. We aren’t all that close, but we’re on friendly terms as far as roommates go. I was still super embarrassed, but my only anxiety at that point really was them laughing at me for looking at foot stuff. Then I get this an hour later:
Holy shit, I’m completely freaked out. They think I’m a total creep, I’m texting my FWB about it and I’m just freaked out in general. I wasn’t crying or anything, but I genuinely was completely panicked and I just wanted to curl up in a ball and die of embarrassment. The times I feel the worst are when I try to comfort myself thinking the consequences of something aren’t going to be as bad as I think it’s going to be and then it actually end up being magnitudes worse than what I was anxious about.
I sent back a response, but they got back to me an hour after that. The entire time I was completely convinced they were freaked out by me tbh. I’m just glad it didn’t send to my boss, I genuinely wouldn’t of known what to do in that scenario.
I'm glad the roomie was chill about the whole thing!
That being said, an unintentional leak from the spank bank would absolutely suck. I can only imagine the simultaneous wash of spine chilling fear and hot shame upon realization of the recipient. Lol