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I can't say I can pin down an exact time, but by the time I had learned about BDSM on the internet I was sure I would like it. The first thing I remember was REALLY liking the scene in Aladdin where Jasmine was chained up by Jafar

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[–] Limeey 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Imo there’s a disconnect between what “kinky” is and what “catholic shame” breeds. I’m not super kinky compared to my poly friend with a fuckin dungeon in his basement, but I don’t want to just have missionary sex in the dark before bed with shame following. My wife and I enjoy sex, and for some that is “kinky” which I guess?

I do like restraints, slapping, choking, and a healthy dose of dom/sub tho >:)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

it's a spectrum. people who are super vanilla think anything outside of PnV sex is kinky af. those who are into piss play or bruising think cuffs and slapping is vanilla.