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Nipple Toys Unleashed: A Playful Showcase of Sensual Delights! (youtu.be)
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Get ready to tantalize your senses and elevate your intimate adventures! 🌟 Join us for a casual yet informative slideshow as we unveil the captivating world...

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Collars of Seduction: Exploring Sexy Neckwear!" (youtu.be)
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Ready to level up your bedroom style? 😍 Join us for a sexy slideshow adventure as we showcase a tantalizing array of seductive collars available in the mark...

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The SF Armory, aka the former 'Kink Castle', may return as concert/event venue with added jazz club (hoodline.com)
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New life goal: making a pilgrimage to the castle to see live music

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Looking to introduce yourself or meet others? Use this thread! [July 2023] (kbin.social)
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PLEASE READ: Rules and Guidelines

Any dating ads or personals must include “[PERSONAL]” above all other text - this was people don’t solicit those just trying to introduce themselves. Please report any unwanted solicitation or harassment directly to me via DM - I will ban all offending users.

While nobody is required to share more information than they please, we suggest that users include the following info in all personals:

A nickname
Age (or a range within 5 years)
Gender identity
Sexuality
Favorite kinks
Hard limits
Relationship status

Other than that, just have fun and chat with others! Don’t be afraid to show off your personality and flair!

There are no rules and guidelines to follow for introductions, but I want to remind users that we strictly enforce our policy that all active users (posters and commenters) should be 18+, regardless of your local laws.

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A really great resource to learn about electrostim + buy toys! (us.electrastim.com)
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been playing around with electrostim lately - definitely one of the most rewarding kinks out there, but also one of the more dangerous ones. Thought I’d share one of the sites that was helpful for me getting started!

I’ve linked to the storefront, but their site has a great FAQ and blog for people who want to learn.

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The Best BDSM Gear for Under $100 (www.vice.com)
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This is a total gimmick, but I'd be lying if I said bdsmtest.org wasn't one of my first exposures to the world of kink. Post your results below! (bdsmtest.org)
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Freshman year of college the dorm floor that I lived on gathered 30+ people and we all took this test together. One thing led to another and a group of us ended up joining the local munch in our town! Definitely one of my best memories and my first foray into the BDSM community.

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What are your favorite BDSM-related podcasts, blogs, or YouTube channels? (kbin.social)
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I, of course, have to shout out some of the classics:

Watts the Safeword

Evie Lupine

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When did you realize that you were kinky? (media.kbin.social)
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I can't say I can pin down an exact time, but by the time I had learned about BDSM on the internet I was sure I would like it. The first thing I remember was REALLY liking the scene in Aladdin where Jasmine was chained up by Jafar

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50 Shades of BS - How to tell the Difference Between Kink and Abuse (www.scarleteen.com)
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Scarleteen is a sex education website that I used for a few years before I turned 18, but it's full of wisdom that can is equally valuable for adults as well. This is a quick read but an important one for anybody looking to get into kink

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A great compilation of non-fiction BDSM books for those who want to learn about kink! I particularly recommend "The New Topping Book" and/or "The New Bottoming Book" for new users. (www.goodreads.com)
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95 books based on 130 votes: Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Philip Miller, SM 101: A Realistic I...

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Are there any good resources for people looking to get into bdsm? (kbin.social)
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I'm pretty well versed and into a fair amount of kink/bdsm stuff, but for people looking to explore it might be nice to have some resources.

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Resources for reading about healthy experimentation in the bedroom? (kbin.social)
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I'm pretty well versed in the bdsm culture, but I've always wanted to read more literature on the subject. Are there any deep dives or even academic papers to look at? Specific subject matter can be whatever, but I'm mostly curious about articles that delve into WHY some people enjoy BDSM and others don't.