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I keep saying my deadname in my head, this kinda started a bit after a family gathering where I heard my deadname a ton. This was in may and sometimes I will just say my deadname in my head and it feels wrong, it also kinda makes my real name feel a little wrong, even though I know it's not and I like the name skylar

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah. It used to be a lot. Then sometimes. Then not often. And then never...

It just takes time to change those mental muscle memories

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The thing is I've been using my name for several years personally and for 3 years publicly

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I signed an email with my birth name 3 years after I legally changed it :)

You'll get there