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It's someone I work for (not manager) she's absolutely going out of her way to find things I do wrong, even though most of them are usually her doing in the first place. I finally cornered her and asked her flat out why she was picking on me and she got really flustered and sputtered excuses, and I told her it has to stop. I honestly think she has a personality disorder because this is chronic long term behaviour for her with everyone.
Whether she has a personality disorder or not it does not excuse her behavior or give her a pass to treat anyone that way. You did right by standing up for yourself make sure you nip that shit in the bud and don't allow her to do that again
I even tried befriending her, thinking maybe we'd work better together if we were friends because we have stuff in common, and when she's not being a ho I genuinely do enjoy her. She turned around and ripped me a new ass a week later. I have great respect for her knowledge in her field, she's really smart, and one of the best at what she does, but by God she needs therapy. Thank you for your kind words. I like my job ok and I'm devoted to the program but she is wearing me down inch by squawking inch.