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How do you handle being upset about something online? (self.asklemmy)

submitted 1 year ago by _number8_ to c/[email protected]

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like either a dumbass posting stupid shit, unfair bans, idiotic arguments, etc etc. i feel so incredibly stupid letting it affect me at all, but then also there's real feelings mixed in there because it's a real argument i give a shit about to some degree. so it's this odd double crossing where i know it's stupid but i process it as being real.

bonus points for not answering 'go outside drink water read a book' etc etc

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I don't really engage with anything I don't see as a thoughtful reply made in good faith. Sometimes. But I try not to.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago

Similarly, have they offered something worthy of my time and consideration?

Yes, consider engaging.

No? Next.

[–] jcit878 1 points 1 year ago

I like to lead such people on in bad faith. watching them go from thinking they are the ones in control of the conversation to realising they are being played is actually quite fun. Bonus points for the rabid PMs they might start sending towards the end. Just knowing you can rile someone up so much when they expected to control the narrative is great