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Neighbours recently had their home remodelled, which involved them putting new glazing in their bathroom. The glass is not frosted enough and there's a lot to see.

They are large windows too, starting at knee hight. How do I bring this up?

Bonus points if someone can tell me why this community keeps showing my subscription as pending.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 94 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Go there, ring the bell, tell them. The longer you wait the creepier that conversation is going to be.

[โ€“] Noedel 30 points 1 year ago

Yeah exactly right. In a few weeks it's worse.

[โ€“] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago

And when you do it, make sure you stare at them unblinkingly to assert dominance.

[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago

Bring a video.

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

Agree, it might seem an awkward conversation but if they're not idiots they'll realise you're looking out for them. You could leave an anonymous letter or something, but there is a good chance they'll guess it was you anyways.