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Most of the time when people say they have an unpopular opinion, it turns out it's actually pretty popular.

Do you have some that's really unpopular and most likely will get you downvoted?

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[–] GoofSchmoofer 25 points 1 year ago (9 children)

Negative motivation is the real way to make changes.

It's great to have goals and positive things to look forward to when you reach those goals.

But to be consistent in doing the hard work to reach that goal it's better to scare the shit out of your self by asking

"what happens to me if I don't do the work?"

[–] overjustice 4 points 1 year ago

I think there's a very fine line with negative motivation, stress builds up really fast and then it's just counter productive and harmful

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