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Does Anyone Host a Discord Alternative? Like a Matrix/Synapse Server? (self.selfhosted)

submitted 1 year ago by gccalvin to c/selfhosted

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As r/selfhosted seems to have shutdown due to the reddit api changes (rip), I wanted to see if anyone has worked with these services before?

How do they compare to Discord and how hard is it to maintain, as the setup looks pretty in depth for matrix and synapse. How did you convince your user base to use it over Discord.

I've hosted TS3 for about 8 years and are looking for alternatives, as we have to use Discord for screen sharing.

Thanks!

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

For Matrix, I'd recommend conduit over synapse, with the expectation that all of synapse's features haven't yet been added (most notably support for spaces, which may or may not be a dealbreaker).

It's incredibly easy to set-up and very lightweight. I never self-hosted synapse due to how resource-heavy it is, and constantly had issues with dendrite racking up resources as well.conduit has honestly been the easiest thing I've self-hosted.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What front-end are you running with conduit? I just spent two hours trying to get element to talk to it but i've put it off due to so much failure with it.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago

There's a couple I use: element (desktop & mobile), gomuks, nheko, and fluffychat.

I'm assuming you followed the deploy walkthrough? That should work pretty well on its own, but there might be some weird networking issues you could be having. First try running conduit once set up in the foreground to make sure it starts without issue, then try the health check listed in the instructions:

$ curl https://your.server.name/_matrix/client/versions

# If using port 8448
$ curl https://your.server.name:8448/_matrix/client/versions

If it fails here, I'd recommend stopping by their matrix room with another account. The room is active and helpful; I greatly appreciated the help I got in setting up my homeserver with a subdomain + pretty homeserver name i.e. without the subdomain. As conduit is still early in development it'd probably be good to have a backup account on matrix.org or another smaller homeserver (preferably the latter given how overloaded the former is).

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

It's not too bad. I host for me and my wife with a few bridges and synapse and postgres together use less than 500MB of RAM. That is not too bad.