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English usage and grammar
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Yes. The only case I can think of where I might say “for me” in one of those is talking about an inevitable future event where I have no real choice.
e.g. if I only have beans in my cupboard, I might reasonably say “it looks like beans for me [for supper tonight]”. Or if I am sure I will die soon, “it seems like the end for me.”
As a native English speaker it always blows my mind when people explain the unwritten rules. I know there's a reason some things sound more "proper" than others but just think "that's the way it is" without understanding the core reasoning. I feel like I had an epiphany after reading this lol
That makes sense!
So "for me" implies something is forced upon you, and it has nothing to do with what your opinion is about that thing... right?
Thanks!
Yes, exactly!
Although I could express an opinion if I put “for me” first. Like “for me, beans are the worst meal ever”.