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Yeah, you do that Jeff. Go to someone's private home and fix everything wrong in there before someone gets hurt.
By the time things have escalated to the point the abuse victim is desperate to escape, they've spent years trying to fix things at home. Remember, most victims start off having loved their abuser once. It's only after you're met with failure after failure after failure that it finally starts to sink in your abuser doesn't want to change, because they like having power over you.
The only safe option at that point is to GTFO before things escalate even further.