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Joe Exotic posts on instagram that his husband was deported by ICE after years of shilling for Donald Trump.

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[–] AA5B 4 points 2 days ago (2 children)

People can do whatever they want with their relationships, but if they want a union recognized by the government and the advantages conferred by that, then yes the state can regulate that

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago (2 children)

What do you mean by that? Because there are some cases I agree but a lot of the current restrictions are silly.

[–] AA5B 2 points 2 days ago

I just like clear terminology. If he’s using wording for a legally sanctioned partnership then I understand it as a legally sanctioned partnership. I don’t entirely care but you don’t get to claim words that mean one thing to mean another thing, although I’ll take obvious slang or satire

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 days ago

Regarding "restrictions":

In at least some jurisdictions, the process of getting married involves "a marriage license", and I think of a license as something that provides a privilege to and imposes an obligation upon someone, and potentially multiple privileges and/or obligations.

A license is "Freedom to deviate deliberately from normally applicable rules or practices (especially in behaviour or speech)", so if there are any "restrictions" then they just apply by default, and people with a marriage license get to ignore some of them (in exchange for having some additional obligations/restrictions).

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Exotic didn't say a single word about legal advantages.

[–] AA5B 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

No, but he used terminology that implied a legally sanctioned contract. That’s potentially misleading/wrong. It’s lying. But it doesn’t mean anything specific about the state of whatever relationship he may have

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Talking about marriage doesn't imply anything about the law, because marriage isn't a legal construct. It's in your heart.

[–] AA5B 2 points 2 days ago

I have a commitment to drive my kid home from college for a weekend with his friends. It’s a personal commitment that I take seriously. It’s in my heart….. but I’m not calling it a contract