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I never grew past the phase of childhood where kids will be like "oh my God cool shirt we should be friends!" Lol I make a point to do my best never to come across as creepy or predatory (especially given I am physically quite large. Over weight by about 60 pounds, but even at my ideal weight I'd be an imposing figure), but clothing choices are what I notice, just like when I was a kid. I'll be walking through Walmart and be like "I love your T-shirt!" And the smiles are so amazing. I don't know why more people don't do it, it feels so good seeing people get happy, when all I did was say the thing I was thinking already.
A favorite one was a woman in Walmart a few months ago. She was tall, and dressed in, full, hippie gear. I'm talking log flowing earth tones, chunky crystal necklace, an om/aum pendant, peace symbol ear rings, her hair was in this really elaborate braid, the type that looks super simple but probably takes a ton a work, super tall chunky cork platforms... It was like she stepped out of the 60s, but not in a fake way, it was obviously not a costume, either. This these contemporary items that she put together for this look. She looked amazing.
I initially went to compliment the necklace that I really liked, and then took in the whole look and it came out like this:
"I love your ne-- I love your whole freaking vibe!"
She laughed hard and smiled and just looked so incredibly joyful. Then she noticed the two tiny puppies I had and she got the play with puppies for a minute, and it was a rare example of joy in this crushing dystopian world.
Sounds like you and I are of a kind.
Sounds like you and I are of a kind.
Though this one I think I get. In modern society I think people are trained not to engage with strangers. It took me a few positive responses before I felt comfortable volunteering my thoughts to random people in passing. Also, I myself didn't think to start doing it until I read about how much a single compliment could mean to someone; if I had never read that post, I don't know if it would have independently occurred to me to start reaching out. I agree, though, it's worth doing.
I once said something very similar to a contractor who came to my house to work on my water system. I think I said "I like your style, it's pretty awesome" - he had some cool tattoos and a fashion sense I would emulate if I were in any way fit. It made him smile, but I don't think it meant as much to him as what you described above.
edit: Maybe because there were no puppies.