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Welcome to femcel memes. A place where anybody can post memes that fit the vibe.

Warning: We have a tendency to post things that may at times come from a self-deprecating perspective or things that are funny coming from another queer person. This space will always be a safe place for transfems, non-binary people, people with a feminine gender expression (GNC or otherwise) or anybody else in the LGBT Community to come together and share about our experiences but we truly feel that laughing about the sometimes silly and embarrassing parts the queer experience can help bring us together. We never mean offense or harm in anything posted but rather they are satirical takes coming from queer people.

A note about 'Egging': Our community is mostly made up of transfem individuals, and as such most memes posted will be posted with the intention of having a transfem perspective. However, regardless of gender identity, all feminine presenting individuals are welcome here. Whether that means you're NB, GNC, transmasc, or any other identity, you are welcome here. It is not our intention or goal to invalidate these identities. If something makes you uncomfortable, please feel free to report the post and I will address your concerns on an individual level. For more information regarding the problems with 'Egg-culture', please see Here.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

Just wanted you to know that you've started me on a QC marathon that has consumed my life. I've read like 3000 pages so far.

On one hand, I was definitely using this to procrastinate and avoid critical tasks, and will be facing rather unpleasant consequences soon.

On the other hand, reading multiple character arcs of shitty and/or fucked-up people getting their lives together (albeit in cute, orthogonal-to-reality sitcom fashion), and growing in really beautiful ways, has led me to reconsider my approach to life a bit. I might even try this 'self-love' thing everyone seems to be talking about. Can't hurt, I guess.

If you've actually read this far - I'm taking suggestions on how to start! (If you don't have any, that's cool; thanks for reading my rant anyway.)

In summary - I fucked up again but it might have been worth it. Chaos Theory Butterflies ๐Ÿฆ‹. Insert obscure QC in-joke here.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

hell yeah
self-love self-love self-love

spoilerConcerning suggestions (not to be prescriptive): I. Becoming Lost and Losing Your Way; in a era where nothing seems to work; is a positive vector, even when it feels scary. II. The lens of [fight, weapon, enemy,] collapses be-ing into something binary, which is well understood by apparatuses of oppression. Inhabiting the cracks in crumbling systems allows for ternary evasion: Every day, black slaves fought by singing to each other.
Concerning self-love: crimethinc-Ferdinand tackles love well; I think you are right. As for self, a non-alienating reconsideration of what the self is may lead to wonderful developments. We are more than just minds, or bodies, or gut biomes.

spoiler spoiler Perhaps unrelated thought: When Martin finally called it quits with Dora, he acted in an direction of self-love that encompassed his entire community (& comic & readers & author) as the self, even if everyone was fucked up over it :::

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

spoilerOoh, that's a lot to think about!

I'm still working through the links you sent in that other post you deleted (not sure why you did). Mind-altering stuff...

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 7 hours ago

I'm glad you liked these things :)

spoiler(I deleted the post because I thought of this)