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Anon goes on a first date (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 15 hours ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 hours ago

I'm sorry, but dealbreakers are dealbreakers for a reason. And dealbreakers aren't stuff that should be treated like it can be changed easily. Dealbreakers are things like political alignments, interest in having children, marriage and other stuff.

And asking women to give a guy they don't like "just a chance" has not done anything ever for anyone, seriously. The amount of times I hear about women giving the "weird guy" a second chance has always ended in the guy either seriously overstepping boundaries or taking the later rejection even worse. I have yet to meet a "weird guy" who hasn't done something seriously heinous later down the line.

And I am certain you didn't mean it that way, but saying "It's ok for you to help your dates avoid these" makes it sound like you're advocating for invalidating womens opinions, as if they can't make decisions for themselves and need help from a man to make the "right" one.