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I'm mentally abusive and I still want to die, an update post (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 3 weeks ago by [email protected] to c/mentalhealth

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I still want to die and I feel like my friends who wanted me to get help are better off without me. Today I was sitting on the couch venting about some car related stuff, than how I was anxious about not getting a job in our new city, than without warning everyone leaves I feel like they got tired of me venting and just left. If I ask they will deny it but I know I’m a burden and I really wouldn’t blame them if they kicked me out if I went to the phycward and lost job. I feel like they don’t want me to die but also don’t know they are better off without me and I’m mentally abusive cause I vent and I tire people out but no one can say anything cause I’m suicidal.

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[–] mbgid 9 points 3 weeks ago

What you have described isn't being mentally abusive. I'm really sorry you're in this position. Please don't convince yourself this behaviour makes you an abusive person: it doesn't.

When your friends express that they want you to find help, it's because they care about you. They want you to come out of this and thrive.