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I always find it puzzling when adults act like "You told me to do a thing so now I don't want to do it" or "You said a thing that's true, but in a way that made me feel bad so I refuse to accept it". What's going on in there?
Related question, do you think in words or feelings? Some people have a whole inner monologue, and some people do not. Some people think in pictures, or just wordless impulses.
It's less of a knee jerk reaction of insolence against some perceived authority to rebel against, and more that I found the demeanor and entitlement of the post to be so utterly repugnant that I was put off. "You said you'd use Linux and didn't how dare you". It's like a toddler throwing a tantrum over people whom may not exist.
As for your related question, the subtext is that you are accusing me of being an unthinking person who reacts only out of emotion, and I don't particularly care for that, nor do I have any reason to tell you my internal mental processes, so I decline answering it.
You did come off as someone who reacts only on emotion, since that's all that was visible in your previous post.
Being put off by the delivery of information is not typically a good reason to dismiss it. If someone says to you "3 is a prime number you donkey" you're hopefully not going to reject that because they were rude. I mean, we all do that to some extent, but it's a pretty sloppy shortcut.
Since we're talking about how people come off, you come off as one of those people who like to think they are logical and rational but are very dismissive of emotions (of others) and come off as condescending, because you are. You're also probably pedantic.
So, to appeal to your rational side, just because a decision is based off of emotion doesn't inherently invalidate it. If someone said "3 isn't a prime number you donkey" and you got mad and argued that it was, you're still correct even if the way you got to that conclusion wasn't rational.
It's probably a variation of ad homonym but I'm not going to bother to look up the specifics.
I think people over value emotions, but I realize I'm part of people too and it happens to me. Emotions are a fast heuristic but they're not very inaccurate. They're good for when speed is important, or when more information isn't available. Neither is true on an async post about Linux. But yes, I can be dismissive of emotions but it's something I'm working on.
I've seen too many people make strange, unhelpful, decisions because like "someone told me to do something and now I won't" or "that guy was rude so I'm not going to listen". That's what your post felt like to me. (Note the emotional dimension there, heh)
Like, imagine a friend who always forgets their plans, is late, and double books themselves. You probably can't just be like "use a calendar, dude". You probably have to gently massage them and incept the idea. If you just tell them, they'll feel bad, reject the idea, and continue having problems. (In real life, some months later the friend did come around to using a calendar, but only after uselessly wrestling with feeling bad)
That was a lot of delving into your personal opinions that I don't care about to bury a "you're right" in there. How typical, the only thing you relate to emotions is being unable to control someone else. They are another thing to get in the way of what you, like a selfish child that became a dictator, want. No empathy for the joys in life or sympathy for the sorrows, you hypocritically aggrandize logic through illogical opinions. They aren't there specifically for decision making or as an accurate heuristic, they aren't a tool for you to control, they are an experience to have while alive. Something you seem to be half assing. I'm glad you're getting help but frankly it seems like you have a long way to go if you're that level of control freak.
If you're upset by this, you're the type to be dismissive of emotions, I see no reason why I should consider yours in the slightest. If you don't like how that feels, to have your emotions ignored, then I've given you something to think about, haven't I?
Sure... But your reaction was also childish and irrational.
A little bit of the pot calling the kettle black...
It's a little calculated, but probably wouldn't get picked up on by people.
Some people just need to be contrarian... It's like Oppositional Defiance Disorder or something. Like a child.