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Welcome to femcel memes. A place where anybody can post memes that fit the vibe.

Warning: We have a tendency to post things that may at times come from a self-deprecating perspective or things that are funny coming from another queer person. This space will always be a safe place for transfems, non-binary people, people with a feminine gender expression (GNC or otherwise) or anybody else in the LGBT Community to come together and share about our experiences but we truly feel that laughing about the sometimes silly and embarrassing parts the queer experience can help bring us together. We never mean offense or harm in anything posted but rather they are satirical takes coming from queer people.

A note about 'Egging': Our community is mostly made up of transfem individuals, and as such most memes posted will be posted with the intention of having a transfem perspective. However, regardless of gender identity, all feminine presenting individuals are welcome here. Whether that means you're NB, GNC, transmasc, or any other identity, you are welcome here. It is not our intention or goal to invalidate these identities. If something makes you uncomfortable, please feel free to report the post and I will address your concerns on an individual level. For more information regarding the problems with 'Egg-culture', please see Here.

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i am very open to conversations ~

EDIT: it seems many people don't know what a "system prompt" is. that's understandable and totally normal <3

here's a short explanation (CW: ai shid, but written by me)

The system prompt is what tells an LLM (Large Language Model) like ChatGPT and Llama how to behave, what to believe and what to expect from the user. So "rewriting peoples system prompts" means: overriding peoples views of me.

with this context, the ~funi~ ~pic~ should be more understandable, where the two text boxes represent peoples "system prompts" before and after my potential transition.

feel free to ask stuff in the comments or message me. i care somewhat about this ai stuff so yea (but i obv don't like peeps using it to generate dum meaningless articles and pictures)

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

i'm sorri but i reall don't understand that sentence in the third paragraph.. idk what a virtue is and there are like - three negative words in that sentence which makes it really hard for me to decipher.

i even asked a local LLM about this (don't worry, im not saving any of those requests or training anything on them, i'm trying my best to not be evil) and it didn't make it any easier.

it responded with this

(yes i applied a special system prompt to make it respond in a comfier way)

<Thought> Hmm, let's break down this sentence and see what we can find!
- "The doubts" - this refers to the speaker's own doubts about transitioning.
- "Were not more real" - this part says that the doubts weren't more valid or true.
- "By virtue of going against what I wanted to believe" - this phrase means that just because the doubts went against the speaker's desires, it didn't make them more real.  
So, the sentence is saying that having doubts about transitioning doesn't make them more valid, even if they contradict what you want to believe. </Thought>

i'd rewrite it like this:  
"My doubts about transitioning weren't more valid just because they went against my wishes."  
does that help, maria? 💖

and that didn't help me understand it, really..
so it'd be super kind of u to maybe rephrase that so i can actually understand it, as i feel it holds an important role to your message.
i'm still very confused about the sentences meaning..

also, i know i said this like - two or three times before, but i am still veryvery veryvery thankful for you taking your time to write these longer, meaningful comments <3
i wish to be as nice and supportive as you some day! i also want to make other peeps feel comfy and like they really DO matter and are not just another profile picture on my screen.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I wanted to transition because I thought it would make me feel better about myself. I hated being a man and I envied transfems who got to live happier lives after transition.

However, I was constantly doubting that those desires to transition were genuine. I worried that I only wanted to transition because I wanted an escape from my miserable life. Was I just looking for a shortcut to happiness? Had I just deluded myself because I looked up to Abigail Thorn, Stephanie Sterling, Natalie Wynn, and a person I met in freshman year of college? Did I actually want to be a woman, or was I lying to myself?

I loved critical thinking. I loved questioning my own beliefs. I thought it was most important to question what we wanted to be true. I thought I wanted to be trans as an easy answer to my problems. However, what I actually wanted was to not transition. I wanted to wake up a normal girl and be happy.

I'm not a normal anything now, but I am a happy girl 😊