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Men have been taught not to approach women in public unless it's online in a dating app. Women have always been taught not to approach men.
So no one is having relationships except for a very small portion of people who are disproportionately physically attractive.
Pair that with the hypergamy that women are doing where they only chase men out of their league now for the most part and it makes things that used to be normal and taken for granted like getting married and having a family exceptional jewels that are hard to come by.
This isn't true. This is what right wing loser podcasters claim to further the idea of women or libruls as the problem, and themselves as the solution. It's a much deeper problem than that.
If you actually spend time around women you'll find that looks are a way lower priority for them than for men. You'll find that they value things like being understanding, doing interesting things, being trustworthy, and for physical things as long as you're hygienic and have a semblance of style they really don't care much even if you're heavier. And guess what? These are ALL things you can work on to improve yourself.
Want to have more women like you? Work on yourself first. Women aren't attracted to men who complain online about "I'm not allowed to go talk to them in public"
At least in my experience, women tend to care about looks just about the exact same amount as men, that is to say some care almost exclusively about looks and some not at all, and everywhere in between, and at about the same rates from what I've seen. Anecdotal tho, and the general gist of what you said still applies, I'm just being pedantic lol
Oddly class and status is missing from this list... I wonder why