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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Can you clarify what you mean by that, please?

Edit: I'm going to assume that it probably means what I think it means. I reported the comment for advocacy of murder/suicide.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I don't think that it's good to kill oneself, and I think doing neither thing is better than doing both. Sorry, the comment was made when I was falling asleep and poorly phrased. I was considering that depression causes one to not wish to do anything and so giving someone a difficult goal is a good way to avert it long enough for them to get the help they need.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I was considering that depression causes one to not wish to do anything and so giving someone a difficult goal is a good way to avert it long enough for them to get the help they need.

In my experience, most people who are suicidal want, more than anything else, just a way out. They have desperation for some way to release what they’re feeling and not have to go through it anymore. Painting a picture of one, and telling them that they can make it all count for something and then it’ll all be over, is one of the darkest and most fucked-up things I’ve ever seen on the internet in all my time here. So no, I don’t agree with your analysis.

As a side note, I also don’t see any connection at all between “correct utility assessment” and what you just said.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I also don’t see any connection at all between “correct utility assessment” and what you just said.

Okay. Actions have positive utility or negative utility based on the results. Telling someone to do something bad is bad if they actually do the bad thing. If by telling them to do the bad thing you just stop them from doing a different bad thing, then the action of telling them to do the bad thing can have positive utility even if the proposed action has negative utility.