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~30 year old Lemmings who live in apartments, do you make friends with your neighbours? (lemm.ee)

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Beyond the polite "Hey, how's it going". Close enough to hang out at each other's apartment, maybe even ask them to water your plants or feed your pet while you're away.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

My last apartment (~2020) was at less than 30% occupancy and I was the only person living on my floor. Yay housing crisis.

My apartment before that was in an older Orthodox Jewish Ukrainian community that was very hostile to outsiders, and particularly my interracial relationship. The head door guard was especially racist. There was one other guy with a dog who was super nice and friendly we'd talk a bunch especially while walking. He was feeling as unwelcome as we were and they drove him out a few months before we got driven out.

Now, as a homeowner I've exchanged misdelivered packages with my neighbours and done trick or treating. I don't really know their names but i recognize their faces. There was one guy that was a creep to the femmes of our building but he's moved out thankfully, but it kinda spoilt the first impressions a bit.