Basically, for many people with ADHD, we aren't so good at sensing where our bodies are in relation to the world around us. So it's not abnormal to, say, run into doors when walking through them.

I'm pretty much perpetually covered in bruises.

[–] xantoxis 4 points 1 month ago (3 children)

wait fuck is THAT what it is? i've always been sorta on the fence about whether i'm adhd, but this symptom is one i have times one million.

[–] flicker 4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

It can also occur in folks with other neurodivergence but yes, there's a legit reason why bruises are meme-worthy (and why I get my undies in a twist when people act like it's not a legit symptom).

[–] xantoxis 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

I've always been clumsy. It was bad enough that a couple of years ago I asked my doctor if I needed a neurology consult. Nobody at any point has said ADHD to me. (Or autism, I've probably also got that going on.) God healthcare sucks

[–] flicker 3 points 1 month ago

I take stimulant medication for my crippling ADHD and while it's in my system, I am suddenly aware of where I am, in relation to other things. I don't run into things, I don't trip on nothing.

When I'm at baseline, I have been known to tip over while standing.

This isn't an ad for medication. There are massive drawbacks to it. It's just a reiteration that this isn't our fault. It's not that we're "clumsy." It's not that we're stupid. In this case it isn't even that we're unobservant! It's that neurologically typical people often "feel" where they are in relation to everything around them without trying.

We are fundamentally missing a sense of spacial relation, completely without a frame of reference to everything around us. That isn't a flaw that we possess because of something we are doing "wrong," or because we don't try. And when I realized that, especially since I'm a woman (and grew up verbally brutalized over my unbecoming bruises), it made me angry.