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Infuriating appointment today (self.adhd)

submitted 1 month ago by TheBluePillock to c/adhd

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Sorry if this is the wrong place, I just really need to vent somewhere.

I had a followup today to discuss the next steps since neither guanfacine nor atomoxetine worked out. I've been waiting for this because I know stimulants are the first line treatment and I've had nothing but awful experiences with the other meds. He had me take a drug test ahead of time - to make sure I wasn't already taking stimulants, he said. I've been open about everything I'm on and he said it would be fine. That was a lie.

I tested positive for a bit of weed, which I told him about. It's legal in my state. Despite saying it was fine before (I asked, specifically), now he changed his tune and said he's going to keep testing me and if I test positive three times he won't prescribe me any stimulants.

The kicker? I even have a prescription for it, because I worry about exactly things like this. It's for chronic pain, but tbh helps my depression and anxiety too. I don't even use much - about $150 in edibles over the last year. But if I spent that much on alcohol every weekend, that would be no barrier to getting a prescription.

I went in for help and was nothing but honest, and I left feeling attacked over prescription medicine that's been helping me. What the fuck. I'm so frustrated and angry I just want to cry. Why is it so hard to get help?

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (6 children)

That's outrageous, you shouldn't have to deal with this bullshit.

I agree with the other reply - report them and find a new GP, I know that's a massive pain and hassle, but it's so important to have a medical team that is there to help you make your life better, not judge and police you according to their own questionable morals.

[–] TheBluePillock 4 points 1 month ago (5 children)

Thankfully it's not my GP, but yeah it's time to find another provider and start all over again. I went looking for a psychiatrist to manage my meds for a different reason a month or two ago and struck out half a dozen times before running out of steam, so it's a little easier said than done. I'll get there eventually, just ... it's weirdly difficult to get help and executive dysfunction can be a real bitch. I won't miss this provider though, so that's some motivation!

[–] cornshark 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

How did you end up striking out? Not taking new patients? Also wouldn't accommodate marijuana use?

[–] TheBluePillock 2 points 1 month ago

Lots of not accepting new patients and places that never end up calling me back even after multiple tries. Websites which specifically said they had availability were not accepting new patients when called. It's exhausting.

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