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My random thoughts 3 months before I turn 18 (lemmy.ml)
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Is a age that is both full of, and devoid of opportunities. I feel like being a adult is just lying about how much you have your shit together to people who also lie about having their shit together. After we got out of college, we are just going to sit in front of a computer like the generations before us for the rest of our life, with the only difference of be paided less then them. I don't want to be like this. I want my life to be more then this. I want to go out explore and change the world. When we gen z first comes to high school the world seems full of opportunities, we imagine us achieving great things, but not one of us could have imagined the entire generation having a mid-life crisis at the age of 18.

To all the Gen Z, and in the future, Gen Alpha. Welcome to the 2020s, welcome to late stage captalism.

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[โ€“] felixwhynot 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

FWIW, you actually do generally learn to get your shit together over time, at least somewhat more than the past

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago

Or is it just a "fake it till you make it" kind of thing? I definitely haven't got shit together, but I've learned to juggle and balance all my problems to perfection so that outsiders could easily mistake it for "having shit together". You should just focus on who you are and be the best you you can be. "Having shit together" is mostly a relative metric which is good for measuring the masses, but not fair to measure you personally.