this post was submitted on 09 Sep 2024
520 points (92.6% liked)
The Onion
4695 readers
779 users here now
The Onion
A place to share and discuss stories from The Onion, Clickhole, and other satire.
Great Satire Writing:
founded 3 years ago
MODERATORS
you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
view the rest of the comments
Doesn't sound weird at all! It's a commendable thing to want diverse perspectives around you and to be aware of the gaps that exist in your community.
I would say that a lot of trans people are open to polite questions, but it can be emotionally difficult to bear the load of educating people while also experiencing the stigma and abandonment that can come with the experience, especially right when coming out. Even good faith questions can feel like being asked the bad faith ones if there's fresh pain there. A boundary that's worked for me personally is to say ask me anything, but it has to be OK if I don't want to answer it, or if I answer it in gory detail.
Tbh I enjoy talking about this stuff so if you have any specific curiosities feel free to ask! But otherwise I do hope you find some folks to connect with in your environment - and even if they're hiding, putting out the right energy will make them come to you ๐