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My friend decided he was bi, but preferared men for the sex and hangouts, women for deeper friendship and intellectual compatibilities. But we're in the Bible Belt where "it's only gay if you don't flaunt toxic masculinity," so I'm relatively a sure that's a factor.
Ngl, there's been a few times I've been a little jealous of bi folks. I've had guys flirt, and outright hit on me, that were objectively gorgeous, and great dudes too, but it just isn't there for me.
But I've also been real lucky in finding male friends that are capable of really deep, emotionally supportive friendship, then being as good a friend as I know how to be. Gay and straight, even here in Appalachia, I've had amazing luck finding good guys that break out of toxic masculinity to be around. It's a minority, unfortunately, but I'll take it.
That's so great, I'm happy you've had those experiences. I do so wish that for everyone. Deep emotional friendships are real blessings, and having one real friend is so much more than a lot of people seem to have, regardless of gender. I feel so lucky to have a few good friends. When sharing sorrow, the burden is lightened, when sharing not, it's vastly multiplied. I would wish at least one really good friendship on every person in the world. How much happier a place the world would be, with the added bonus that really good friends encourage our better impulses and show us reasons not to act on our worst ones.