I think you might be misunderstanding what I'm trying to say. I'm not discounting the value of human culture. I enjoy various types of art, and I am grateful for the people who produce it.

What doesn't interest me in the slightest is urban "culture." By that I mean going to restaurants, attending parties, seeing live music, walking to the corner pub, etc. I haven't done any of these things in years, and I'm happy. If I discover a musician I like, I'm going to spend some money and buy their record, but I don't need to be surrounded by a crowd of people listening to them live.

You mention the term "anti-social behavior," but that doesn't describe everyone who'd rather live in a rural area than a city. Some of us just like our peace and quiet. As far as subsidizing roads and shipping to rural areas, you like to eat, right? Where do you think the food came from? You live in a house or an apartment, right? Where did the wood, concrete, and raw materials come from? A huge amount of agriculture and production comes from rural areas, and it's always going to be necessary to have roads and infrastructure to support this. The fact that I live in the same area that supplied your food doesn't mean that your tax dollars are paying for roads solely so that I can drive on them.

I understand that people like you enjoy the busy life of a city and that you can legitimately take advantage of what a city offers. I'm not like that. Large gatherings of people don't make me happy; they just make me want to leave. My original argument was that a lot of people live in cities because they have to for work. Some of them, like you, live in cities because it makes them happy. For the people that live in urban areas because they have to, I was speculating that many of them might move to more rural areas given the option. I'm not trying to shit on your lifestyle (although I do have strong negative opinions about bicycles on roadways), and I would hope that you extend the same courtesy. Life is short, and in a perfect world, everyone could live in a place that they enjoy.