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Whats your take? Creepy or not? (sh.itjust.works)
submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by [email protected] to c/autism
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I recently conmented on a meme with a little personal experience and would like to know what you fine peoples take is?

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Unfortunately 'Creepy' is subjective and poorly defined. It's a feeling rather than 'this meets XYZ criteria and therefore is creepy'.

she calls me creepy and to stop stalking her. I explain im not stalking im just being a friend and just enjoy talking inbetween class.

I agree with you that she's not using 'stalking' correctly but I believe this was meant to terminate your platonic relationship. It's upsetting but that's likely the point.

random number of text message with photo of me 20 seconds ago at lunch table. panic issues, i message who dis. They reply, you dont need to know stop stalking (girls name). I explain its not stalking if i go up and say hello and talk to them.

This behavior is much more in-line with a correct usage of 'stalking'. I would assume this escalation was taken as being fair game from your refusal to accept her use as stalking. That's vexing but likely meant just to highlight their desire to terminate the relationship as that wasn't clear from her first accusation.