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Whats your take? Creepy or not? (sh.itjust.works)
submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by [email protected] to c/autism
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I recently conmented on a meme with a little personal experience and would like to know what you fine peoples take is?

Thanks!

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[โ€“] [email protected] 23 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

I think you are spending too much effort to engage with a person that is not engaging back with you. Regardless if your behavior was creepy or not, you are worth more than that. That person wasn't matching your effort in maintaining a relationship (friendship in this scenario). Remember it takes two to tango, no matter how much you want it, you won't be able to carry a relationship on your own...

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 2 months ago

Yeah i was kinda desperate and loney at the time. I mostly decided to share to see if i was actually being creepy or autism had a large role in it.

Im really good at making friends but bad at ending friendships even i know there not worth having as friend.

Thanks for your input.