Facepalm

That and the whole if someone says no and you continue... You are now harassing someone. Those are the people that give a bad wrap to so many people. No means no. If you don't mean no, don't say it, or message them later saying you were nervous or some shit and just reacted out of fear. But it is on them once they said no. They shut the door. You don't keep knocking and trying to kick it in and expect to not be considered a threat.