this post was submitted on 12 Jul 2024
104 points (97.3% liked)

Asklemmy

43989 readers
1562 users here now

A loosely moderated place to ask open-ended questions

Search asklemmy πŸ”

If your post meets the following criteria, it's welcome here!

  1. Open-ended question
  2. Not offensive: at this point, we do not have the bandwidth to moderate overtly political discussions. Assume best intent and be excellent to each other.
  3. Not regarding using or support for Lemmy: context, see the list of support communities and tools for finding communities below
  4. Not ad nauseam inducing: please make sure it is a question that would be new to most members
  5. An actual topic of discussion

Looking for support?

Looking for a community?

~Icon~ ~by~ ~@Double_[email protected]~

founded 5 years ago
MODERATORS
 

Feel free to share any life experiences or anecdotes.

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] Smoogs 1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

So you only count anecdotal evidence that ensures your paranoia about people and apply it to every situation. K.

[–] SamuraiBeandog 1 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Paranoia wtf? I've formed my opinions from my life experiences, are you trying to tell me you've done peer reviewed research to decide what makes a good relationship?

[–] Smoogs 1 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

Well you certainly don’t that applies for everyone. And for all I know you, you could be super negative, project the worst scenarios only and/or you could be the problem in all your relationships and this is the excuse you landed on for maintaining a delusion.

You could be lying about having a wife just so you can β€˜win’ an argument online with a total stranger online.

Not a far reach considering your response here.

[–] SamuraiBeandog 1 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

lol do you always assume anyone who disagrees with you is acting in bad faith? Whst a convenient way to shield yourself from uncomfortable truths.

No wonder you're desperate to lock someone into a relationship with you asap, you sound nuts.

[–] Smoogs 1 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

Ditto. As far as bad faith; i nailed you.

[–] SamuraiBeandog 1 points 4 months ago

lol you're the one who came in swinging with "for all I know!" "you could be lying!" as soon as I pressed you on a point. That's the definition of a bad faith argument, you're not acctually trying to engage with points of discussion you're just trying to "win" the conversation.