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Same! I don't agree to the change, but I accept that is how society has adopted the use of it. The vast majority of the time I hear someone use the term literally in conversation, they are using it to mean exactly figuratively. I guess I could insist on misunderstanding their message to prove a pedantic point or correct them, but I already have enough difficulty socializing and don't see the point of making things worse for a futile purpose.
Wellll, I do engage in some recreational pedantry now and then tbh. But not when it isn't obviously for fun. Well, that and if it's my kid or my niece. I keep telling them that there's nothing wrong with slang, dialect, or even just laziness in speech, but you gotta learn formal speech and writing first, and then choose if you're going to use it or not in daily life.
When I'm not home, I actually drawl like hell, and use local dialect heavily because it's fun, and it helps people feel relaxed at a big hairy dude being present. Plus, I genuinely love the history of the dialect and its use, so there's that. But at home, I'm more "correct", other than my insistence on using ain't and y'all liberally.
But bothering people with it? Hell naw. If it ain't my kids, it ain't my bidness :)