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I want to stop ruminating about things I wish I would have said or some stupid thing I did say or why did I do that
Forgiving yourself is difficult. You have grown enough to realize what you did was dumb. Whenever your brain decides to throw a random cringe memory in your face, consciously tell yourself youβre better now and you forgive yourself for your mistakes. It helped me.
That and nearly everyone else has those same thoughts.