put in my public IP,private IP and the IP on the back of my modem
No no no. Stop what youre doing and first understand how opening your services to the public internet works, and what the risks are.
Try subs like /r/HomeNetworking maybe, and the Jellyfin forum.
Just like Satisfactory: Farming Simulator xD With a dedicated server you can choose to keep the sim running while no players are logged in.
It only sucks that they dont offer the server software as a standalone independent free software. Instead you need to buy another copy of the game to run the server with, and im pretty sure if you want to use DLCs, you need to buy those for the server too. Mods of course exist and make some of the paid DLC less interesting. Still not a great practice. Other games only require the host to own DLC and each connecting player can make use of them, while playing on that server. Imo this leads to making a game much more interesting to a small group of friends.