Someone was asking about whether people would rather see a person or a bear in the woods. Bears are probably harmless but if not they're deadly. People are probably annoying, but that's the worst reasonable case. It was low odds high cost v high odds low cost.
Then some people used it to do a sexism.
Then some other people went "nuh uh" and did a counter sexism.
Current status is opposing directions of sexism in an arms race. Currently it seems the boys are worse than the girls, but girls have patience so we'll see.
I've thought about this. Have the "Agriculture was a trap!" people ever designed like a hunter gatherer Eden? Like not historical reenactment. We have tech be a human and use it. But like buy a few hundred acres and plant a shitload of fruit trees with modern fertilizer, use GPS to navigate it, live in a badass modern tent...
Not for me, but those people seriously seem to have the option right there