I was trying to explain that some people will expect us to use the phone open 100% of the time. Like there's a reason they have a smaller screen on the front. I don't always have two hands free to keep the device open, so for those folk I say just get a small tablet since you think it HAS to be used opened 100% of the time or else, "there's no point in owning a foldable," as they say.
I agree with you.
I feel it! I take my fold (took my past folds) with me everywhere. No issues on any of the phones. In fact, the only issue I ever had was completely unrelated to foldables rather a defect. My vibration motor went out but it was an easy, FREE, warranty repair at a local shop. As you said, I think most people who complain about durability definitely don't have the device or were one of the unfortunate few who have to deal with a defective unit – the ones who wake up to a big crack down the middle.